👋 friends!

I feel like it’s been awhile! I took last Friday off because of an extended family trip to MX. Highlight for me was an excursion into the jungle with my eldest to visit some incredibly beautiful cenotes. It put my fear of heights to the test and humbled me, once again, about nature’s beauty and significance. It is a miracle we are here on this planet and we are very lucky to be here, together.

In today’s note:

  • Parenting in the AI era: youth AI usage insights and the urgent need for AI frontier regulation

  • Connection spark: satisficing and the benefits “good-enough”

  • Hands-on with AI: test out Claude Fable, the world’s most powerful publicly available AI

  • The whoa zone: a wearable ultrasound patch

🤿 Let’s dive in…

Parenting in the AI Era

New insights into youth AI use

Common Sense Media just released its first full “census” of AI use among kids 9 to 17 (1,204 kids, surveyed this March). The headline: 86% of kids use AI, and 1 in 4 use it daily.

Three findings in particular jumped out for me:

Kids who report feeling lonely are using AI a lot more. The study can't tell us which direction it goes - lonely kids seeking out AI, or AI use displacing the friendships that prevent loneliness but either way it is concerning that 54% of kids who say they feel lonely at least some of the time are using AI on a dailiy basis, far higher than the ~25% of tweens and teens using AI daily overall.

Kids who struggle lean in hardest. Kids who have a hard time focusing on school assignments are more likely to use AI for schoolwork weekly (56% vs. 45%). Same pattern for kids who find math, essays, or just sticking with hard things difficult. Translation: the kids who most need to build those cognitive muscles are the ones most likely to outsource the reps.

(On this note, I came across an article in Scientific American about building kids’ cognitive endurance in the age of distraction).

There are already signs of AI dependency. Kids are even self-reporting it, with 42% of daily users say going without AI for a month would be hard.

My thoughts: While I’m not surprised at some of the trends, I am surprised about how pronounced they already are. And anecdotally, I sense a growing anti-AI sentiment even among younger kids which will be important to pay attention to. This past weekend, my boys were drawing posters for their room and I used AI to increase the resolution, clean them up, and initially, to add a little “extra” to the backgrounds of their art. They were horrified… “mom! that’s way obvi AI!”

Source: Common Sense Media

Flooring the gas pedal while yelling for breaks

Things are moving fast guys. Perhaps even faster than the most ambitious AI researchers anticipated. With recent progress in the AI frontier labs, we could get to the point where AI has “officially” surpassed human level intelligence (what is referred to as AGI) - and is self-improving on top of that - within the next few of years (if not sooner).

And the fact that, in its current form, global and country-level governance, policy, and regulation moves at glacial pace is now an urgent problem.

Within the span of a week, the three most prominent AI leaders, across different labs, published essays or conducted interviews asking for urgent guardrails, policies, and even a temporary global pause on... themselves.

Anthropic's research institute showed that Claude now writes more than 80% of Anthropic's production code and said outright: if a verifiable way existed for every frontier AI lab to pause at once, Anthropic would pause. Dario Amodei called for FAA-style regulation - mandatory third-party testing of frontier models, with the government empowered to block release. Even OpenAI's Sam Altman wrote that the world needs an international body that can slow frontier development when necessary.

And then, also this week, Anthropic launched Claude Fable 5 the most powerful AI model ever released to the public. It is a "Mythos-class" model, which I spoke of a few editions ago, and it is an undeniable leap above any AI model before it.

tl;dr: I believe the warnings are sincere, and also, the race hasn't slowed one bit.

That's why Pope Leo's encyclical (last issue) matters so much - the people with the most information are telling us the decisions are too big (and urgent) to be left to them. They're asking for the rest of us to show up. (Yes, parents included!).

If you sent that legislator letter from two weeks ago, this is the moment it was for. If you didn't, the link still works.

Image source: Gemini

CONNECTION SPARK

Satisficing > Maxxing

You’ve probably noticed that “maxxing” is everywhere right now… looksmaxxing, fiber-maxxing, sleepmaxxing, solo-maxxing - it’s definitely one of 2026’s cultural trends. (Side note: if you're raising boys, NPR has a helpful guide for parents on looksmaxxing).

But I think we’re wrong to get wrapped up in any sort of “maxxing” culture. For many years, psychologists have studied "maximizers" - people who relentlessly strive for the best optimal choice and have consistently found that maximizing, as a strategy, correlates with less happiness, less optimism, lower self-esteem, more regret, more depression, and more social comparison.

Moreover, maxxing is exhausting when we live in a time with such an overabundance of choices (the human mind makes thousands of choices a day).

Counter to maxxing, there’s a mindset referred to as “satisficing” (term comes from a blend of satisfying and suffice ), which is essentially “good-enough” decision making. It’s having a clear sense of what’s the bar and then picking the first option that clears it and moving on. No overthinking.

Satisficers are shown to be happier and feel more fulfilled. This is largely because this approach hands you back precious time and attention (hint: crucial ingredients needed for connection… like what I did there?).

A couple ideas to try “satisficing”:

  • Family movie night: agree on your musts (family-friendly, comedy, etc) and then the first movie you get to that checks the boxes is the one you watch. (this could be game-changing in our house where it regularly takes 30+ minutes just to all agree!).

  • Airbnbs: (this is my decision-making achilles). Decide on the deal-breakers and nice-to-haves first. Filter for the dealbreakers and all possible nice-to-haves. The first listing with good recent reviews and good overall reviews is the one you book!

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HANDS-ON WITH AI

Take Claude Fable for a spin

Anthropic's new Claude Fable 5 is the most capable AI model the public has ever had access to. I’ve tried it, and it really is next-level impressive.

For right now, it is included on all paid Claude plans at no extra cost, but this is ONLY through June 22 (aka 10 more days). After that, it will cost more. So, we have about ten days to try out the world’s most cutting edge AI model without breaking the bank.

Trying it out may sound intimidating, but it’s actually super easy. Simply go to claude.ai, or better yet, Claude Cowork, and select Fable 5 as your model (In case you don’t have a Claude paid account, I have a few 1 week free passes for Cowork here).

screenshot of Claude Cowork home screen with Fable 5 selected

The impressiveness of Claude Fable is it’s ability to work on it’s own, for a long time, on really complex problems. So, I wouldn’t recommend wasting it on something like summarizing a lengthy news article or drafting an email.

Instead, think of something that is really difficult and multi-step. Something that has been keeping you up at night or that you’ve been putting off for along time because the thought of trying to tackle it is simply overwhelming. Give it something hard like this and see what it can do for you.

For example, a big life decision that has really been weighing on you:

We're trying to decide [switch schools / quit or change jobs / refinance / get a dog / move to a new city]. Interview me one question at a time until you understand our context and constraints, then build the complete decision case: total real cost of each path over 5 years, the second-order effects on our schedule and stress and happiness and family wellbeing, what we'd have to believe for each option to be right, and the strongest argument against your own recommendation. Then recommend, with confidence level.

Sample prompt for Claude Fable

FWIW, I tried out this very prompt on something that has been weighing deeply on me and Brian and was thoroughly impressed (and appreciative) of it’s detailed insights and recommendation.

Side note: another way to really see the power of Claude Fable is to ask it to build you some sort of nuanced video game or city simulator. People report it can build a “better” Minecraft following a single one-line prompt.

THE WHOA ZONE

Scientists have developed a wearable prenatal ultrasound patch

Engineers at UC San Diego and Stanford built a soft ultrasound patch that continuously monitors a fetus for hours. For high risk pregnancies, this could be game-changing. In clinical testing it flagged prolonged abnormal signals that led to an early C-section at 29 weeks, which researchers say saved the baby's life.

And that’s a wrap! If you've found this newsletter helpful, please forward it along to any friends and fellow parents who might also benefit… we’re all in this crazy together.

And, if you have any thoughts, feedback, or requests, please reply or drop a comment - I’d love to hear from you.

Glow on,

Michaela

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