👋 friends!

It has been a week of ups and downs at our house, but as you read this, we are hopefully on an airplane heading on a vacation with my extended family. Nothing like waking up at 3:15am to get to the airport in time for the cheapest flight. 💪

It was another big week in the AI world as Pope Leo stepped into the conversation (which I warmly welcome, fwiw).

In today’s note:

  • Parenting in the AI era: the Pope’s message on AI

  • Connection spark: 5 relationship types with 5 (very different) quality indicators

  • Hands-on with AI: the “make-it-better” summer challenge

  • The whoa zone: a $5 handheld device for early stage cancer detection

🤿 Let’s dive in…

Parenting in the AI Era

The growing moral and spiritual AI debate

I am not currently a practicing Catholic but I have become deeply enamored by Pope Leo. Not just because he chose the name of my youngest son, or because of his Chicago roots and professed love for Aurelios pizza (the restaurant my mother-in-law managed for 30+ years), but because of his brave and moral leadership in a truly complicated time.

He continued this leadership this week by releasing his first encyclical, “Magnifica Humanitas,” about AI. Popes write only a handful of these guiding letters in a lifetime and the choice to make this topic his very first says a lot.

His main message is that AI should not be a competitive or commercial discussion (among an elite few), but a moral one: technology and AI must support human flourishing.

While IMHO this point of view should be completely uncontroversial, believe it or not, that is not the case.

The Pope agrees with AI leaders like Musk and Altman that humanity stands at a crossroads - but that the questions that must urgently be asked (where are we going and toward what goal do we wish to orient ourselves as a people and human community?) are not ones we are currently aligned on asking.

And so above all, he calls for “disarming” AI - more regulation to free the technology from monopolistic control and opening it to inclusive, human-friendly discussion and debate.

My thoughts: this is one time where I wish the Church did have more regulatory authority because I don’t have high hopes that the billionaire techbros will slow their charge. But, I appreciate the importance the Pope is placing on this and the concrete recommendations. Also, it was announced together with a co-founder of Anthropic - which at least means the Church and the AI labs (well, one of them) are talking.

It is this intertwining of just institutions, credible witnesses and daily fidelity that sustains hope and provides clear direction for technological progress without allowing the heart to regress. For this reason, humanity — in all its grandeur and woundedness — must never be replaced or surpassed. We can embrace the technological progress that alleviates suffering and unlocks new possibilities, provided that we do not abandon the very essence of our humanity, namely the capacity for relationship and love.

Pope Leo XIV in Magnifica Humanitus

CONNECTION SPARK

Unpacking “quality” across different relationships

I’ve often championed the importance of having quality relationships for our wellbeing, health, and happiness. But that word - quality - can feel frustratingly vague. What does it actually mean in practice, and how do we build it?

I stumbled on an article this week that featured insights from leading psychologists across the relational spectrum. According to them, there is no one-size-fits-all definition of "quality relationship." But interestingly, each type of relationship in our lives has a precise, defining element that, when present, becomes transformational.

Here is the breakdown:

  • Romantic: Emotional Safety. Quality in a partnership isn't about perfect compatibility; it’s the trust of knowing your vulnerability, mistakes, or past baggage won't be judged or weaponized. It is being entirely seen, and entirely safe.

  • Family: Shared Repair. Every family has friction, but families that thrive are the ones in which everyone is committed to repair after conflict. It’s the shared willingness to take accountability and say, "How do we fix this together?" The good news is this is a teachable skill that we can model for our kids.

  • Friendship: Variety. We often make the mistake of building our friendship circles around familiar demographics. But in truth, friendships thrive on diversity - including intergenerational connections - to give us perpsective, emotional grounding, practical advice, and access to experiences we haven’t yet had. Think of it as different friends for different parts of us, so no single person is being asked to carry it all.

  • Community: Belonging. There's a critical difference between merely showing up to a shared space and truly belonging. Real belonging requires mutual care, stepping past polite small talk, and offering genuine generosity with your time and attention.

  • And last but definitely not least, Self: Attunement. The practice of recognizing, honoring, and responding to your own internal needs, emotions, and physical sensations without judgment. I think for a lot of us parents, this one can be particularly hard because we’re so used to over-extending for others and having that role be praised (and therefore prioritized).

The Spark for this week: Look at that list above. Which of these five areas currently has that defining element? Which one feels like it could use a little extra attention and TLC?

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HANDS-ON WITH AI

The “What Could I Make Better?” summer challenge

Our neighborhood is having a young entrepreneurs competition and it got me thinking that something like this could be a great way to take AI for a spin - in a way that can challenge and inspire kiddos’ thinking while, together, you can co-learn some fun and creative AI tools.

You can run with a “What Could I Make Better” summer challenge in any way that inspires you, but in the spirit of keeping it simple, here’s one way to get started:

Getting started: have your kid(s) pick one thing in the house or daily routine (e.g. ineffective lego storage, toothpaste on the sink, not a “cool enough” bedroom, boring breakfast options, the annoying way mom wakes them up every morning, etc. etc.) that bugs them, and they get to brainstorm and build (with a little AI help) a better solution.

The main rule: the problem and starter idea(s) have to come from your kiddo(s).

I'm a [AGE]-year-old kid. I want to make [PROBLEM] better. I want you to be my coach and co-engineer. My first idea is [IDEA].

Coach me through this, don't do it for me. Go in this order:

  1. Ask me 3 short questions to understand the problem. One at a time and wait for my answers.

  2. Ask me 3 short questions about my idea. One at a time and wait for my answers.

  3. Identify where my idea is strong and where we can improve it, along with 2 different directions I could also take.

  4. When I pick one, describe what a prototype could look and feel like, using stuff I probably already have at home. Then generate an image of it so I can see it.

  5. Ask me what I want to change. Keep iterating until I love it.

Talk to me like a curious mentor, not a teacher. Use plain language. If I'm stuck, ask a question instead of giving the answer.

Sample starter prompt

Pro tip: Try this together in your preferred AI (e.g. Claude Cowork/Claude, Gemini, ChatGPT) but also have some fun in the prototype phase using other AI tools and features (e.g. Artifacts in Claude, Canvas mode in Gemini or Stitch, Vibe coding tools Replit or Lovable, etc).

THE WHOA ZONE

Scientists build a handheld cancer detector with 94% accuracy

Researchers have developed a handheld cancer-screening device capable of detecting early-stage cancer biomarkers from a single drop of blood.

In trials, the device proved about 10,000 times more sensitive than the standard laboratory test (ELISA) at spotting early-stage lung cancer biomarkers. The $5 chip achieved a remarkable 94.9% accuracy for early cancer detection and 92.1% for post-surgery monitoring. 

This week someone dear to me got devastating cancer news. Progress like this matters, and I'm glad it's happening. But I admit I keep coming back to the same thought: if we put even a fraction of the money and AI talent that frontier labs are pouring into one-upping each other toward cancer research, we'd probably have cured cancer by now.

Sorry… but not.

And that’s a wrap! If you've found this newsletter helpful, please forward it along to any friends and fellow parents who might also benefit… we’re all in this crazy together.

And, if you have any thoughts, feedback, or requests, please reply or drop a comment - I’d love to hear from you.

Glow on,

Michaela

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